Thursday, August 11, 2005

Indian Old Parents and Pregnant Sisters in JAIL?

Received the below message in my Blog :-

Indian Old Parents and Pregnant Sisters in JAIL?

This article is made to acknowledge Indian Men, Section 498 (A) of the Indian Penal Code makes it mandatory for the police to book the husband and his parents and other relatives/friends, which has become highly misusage in urban India. NO JOKES! IT’S PARENTS/SISTERS INSIDE THE Jail.

Under this section Case is non-bailable (no bail from police) non-compoundable (no taken back complaint), cognizable (no warrants or inquiry to arrest).

There are numerous cases where Parents getting jailed, even, Wife stayed only few days (NOT MONTHS) with in-laws in several years(>4yrs..) of marriage.

One can be dangerously trapped, there are CHANCES that one end up loosing his parents or someone from his side OR INTO DEPRESSION because of this. Youngsters, if your parent’s are illiterate or do not have knowledge about this LAW, SINCERELY CAUTION YOU, BEWARE and acknowledge yourself and your parents before marriage, else one may possibly gets trapped inside criminal complaint almost as powerful as a felony.
Current Suicide rates in India:

National rate: 11 persons per 100,

For males in the age group of 30 to 44, the Suicide rate is a whopping 508 per 100,000 persons; for women it is 220. The Suicide rate among men in the age group of 45 to 59 is a shocking 1,812 per 100,000 persons and among women, nearly 550. So much more people are dying due to SOWRY (reverse of DOWRY) harassment than the DOWRY harassment.

However, among divorced males the suicide rate is 164 per 100,000 persons, but even in this class, among females the rate is only 63 per 100,000. While the suicide rate for separated men is about 167, for females it is only 41 per 100,000 persons.

Above statistics are surprising but is reality. Culturally India is very inclined/respected/supportive to women and the advantage taken by women organizations.

CAUTION: Read Dowry/Visa Demands section at US State Department (at page end). Also by a search on google ‘India 498A’. Also here:

I believe,this is a BIAS law for marriages, clearly attacking Human Rights, fundamental rights-art.14(Right to equality). Deadliest one perhaps affecting the appropriate Societal Development of India and also stands powerful cause disturbed or aberrations in the family.

This section has become EPIDEMIC of mis-usage in urban india. With Current Indian laws and system, Getting into Indian marriage is ‘ABHIMANYU's PADMAVUYA’. One easily gets into a BIG TRAP, I repeat VERY BIG TRAP, if spouse is BAD in NATURE. Today, there is hardly few divorces, without 498A case being filed on in-laws/husband.
The only ways to escape is re-thinking about marriage or prove innocence in the court as defendent, for which court case easily goes more than 2 yrs., as per current case status. Citing a rule that the service of an employee who remained in police custody for more than 24 hours would be terminated.

These sections were passed around 1980’s perhaps suited to that decade. Generation changed, Girls changed, 498A SHOULD BE AMENDED OR POSSIBLY INDIA HEADING TOWARDS COMPLETE IR-REPAIRABLE DAMAGE, in terms of societal BUILT-UP.
Most NRIs and highly paid salary people are becoming usual excellent pray/targets. For NRIs most cases ends with 15lkhs – 30lkhs compensation. This has grown since 1996.
I believe, In Educated India, if Women intention is to RULE FAMILY, making husband hen-pecked, It is easily possible using this section as blackmail. Statistics showed, Married Educated Men weaker than the married educated women in Pysical, Mental & social life after their 30s. If a youngster notice married Indian men calmly, one may see men look weaker/stressed with bellies.

In Developed nations Men shines as much as women (may be more..), though women are compared to beauty.
In other words, I believe, this law made Marriages into a BAD Business in India.
Young men- think & solve your own way till DOMESTIC LAWS (CIVIL LAWS INTRODUCTION and 498A repealed or appropriated) GET MENDED in our country.
We know things happen the way we think and take steps.
Ask for help at saveindianfamily(4 helpline nbrs.), misusedowryact, nridivorce yahoo groups.
( If one notices abnormal behavior pattern from his educated wife (harming in nature distinctly/timingly). Analyze and examine, whether her attitude built-up is related to her knowledge of this section through her parents or someone. The earlier, one detects, best to come out of that marriage or otherwise one faces harassment for long run and ends up in physical/psychological diseases. If one’s wife knows about this law/section prior to her marriage, what common sense says…..?!! )
(DOWRY/VISA DEMANDS: A number of U.S. citizen men who have come to India to marry Indian nationals have been arrested and charged with crimes related to dowry extraction. Many of the charges stem from the U.S. citizen's inability to provide an immigrant visa for his prospective spouse to travel immediately to the United States. The courts sometimes order the U.S. citizen to pay large sums of money to his spouse in exchange for the dismissal of charges. The courts normally confiscate the American's passport, and he must remain in India until the case has been settled. There are also cases of U.S. citizen women whose families force them against their will into marriages to Indian nationals. )

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At 7:47 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

is that true? my god

At 8:03 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Who is responsible for my peace lost in my family, being married to bad girl from a family who well planned for 498a?
whom shall i blame ?

I came to india after working for a while in foreign country to marry a girl (given advt. in newspapers stating lower middle class girl, which i am ashamed of myself) and live happy. But, I didn't know, where, some people in India, have taken their thoughts to?

Since, my family is not highly educated, they just wanted to make me hen-peck and make things go their end and keep everything intact..they slowly, gradually built cases 1 or 2 against me in india..which i couldn't understand what is going n? and confused for 3 yrs. thinking, why they were doing that..finally I came to know --what is called 498a preparation.? How many families like this, are there in india? India knows

I know i am trapped..and my parents will be jailed for few days or mnths, to prove later in the court, their innocence..

I will use my intelligence and wisdom (which will never stop growing as long as men live outside india after marriage), to come out of this bad marriage, with minimal damages as i can--as better stay alone rather staying with a person, who have thoughts on my earning or property. But for sure, I will never ever marry a girl from india--to be on the risk free zone.I have all evidences against them.

I pity people who are living in india and facing these kind of bad people. God save the state of affairs in India. I also curse, those who directly or indirectly responsible for my situation and they should never rest in peace..and die very bad death..

At 12:59 AM, Anonymous seema said...

A secret group funded by ousider are working in our country to kill the instituion of marriage .

it is the time for us to indentify those people and to be hanged till the death .


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