Monday, September 12, 2005

Money can't buy you love. - Legal Terrorism In India . by rup

Money can't buy you love. - Legal Terrorism In India . by rup
Money can't buy you love. - Legal Terrorism In India . An ever-increasing number of the city's privileged women and Men (more)
http://indiatalking.com/blog/swarup/1318/
An ever-increasing number of the city's privileged women and Men are waking up to this brutal reality.An estimated 95% of the Story received by the Save Indian Family Yahoo Group ( SFI)in recent times have been from the IIT , IIM , IT and well educated People who believes in hard working , honesty and self respecting and well settled in their Carrier .

In their wildest dream also they and their age old Parents and Pregent Sister never ever thought , that they will one day visit a court room or Police Station , but in reality , today their day start after visiting the Court Room or Police Station .It's a fact borne out by Mrs. Vijya ( A school teacher )and his son Anil Sharma. When Anil married Sangeeta, a high-profile entrepreneur, featured often in the lifestyle pages of the dailies, she thought his son found his dream partner."Last year, though, Anil came to us, complaining that Sangeeta wasinvolved with someone else, and was mentally and physically torturinghim. Enquiries bore out the allegation, though Sangeeta refused to becounseled by us. The case has now gone to the courts," revealed a SIF Volunteer.More surprising is — 98% of the Story that come to SFI isSowry-related (reverse of Dowry). Obviously, money is never enough. Interestingly, a high 85% relate to harassment by in-laws, blackmailing, and extortion of money, putting false 498A and dowry harassment case...As Praveen Walia, President of PSS (pariwarik suraksha) reveals: "Marriages are a status statement for this level of society. Invariably, the expectations of high demanding wife and their parents are became very illogical and the poor husband and their family not able to met. On the other and the Men bears the brunt of the disappointment, as you can see in false 498A case, (which Supreme court of India described as “Legal Terrorism “:-

Indian Old Parents and Pregnant Sisters in JAIL?
The matter doesn't stop at harassment though, it soon degenerates tophysical abuse, threat to kill, defame in the society and office by the support of a lot of Women Organization. According to Mahesh Tiwari, A Supreme court Lawyer: "Domestic violence is never contained by money. The Husband and their parents and Sister get little support from the LAW, Police and Human Right Organization and are at the mercyof the Wife and their family."Since that amorphous commodity, reputation is at a premium, cases aregenerally hushed up, admitted By Mr. Mahesh Tiwari."The trend is to strike a compromise in the range of 10 to 50 Lacks , legal dowry , which is termed as Sowry Harassment .
"The domestic violence that you witness at this level is verydifferent. For instance, we've had cases where the family would ensurethat no marks would be left on the Husband and Mother in LAW , Sister –In Law body .But the physical and mental trauma is still enormous," added Ashish .
Relationships with in-laws are no different in this strata, agreedexperts. Ashish cited the case of a couple where the Wife,working in a call centre, was actively encouraged to continue herextra-marital affair by her parents as they felt their Son-in-lawdidn't contribute to the family budget."Education doesn't make any difference. In our society, it's easy tohit your Husband and mother, sister and get away with it," rued Ashish.

The figures certainly point to it.Of the 162 story received over the past six months with SFI, 159were against the wife or in-laws about Sowry demand starting from 2 lacks to 90 Lacks.A telling 82 involved physical violence against the Husband and their relatives.

"It's more frustrating when the Husband and their parents and sister knows that there are no options outside , as media , Human right organization have enough time and money to protect the TADA/POTA Victim , but as WHO ( World Health Organization ) , say there is a Missing Voice ,
- “ The biggest problem of India is Non caring Nature of Daughter –In –Law , for which they abuse the Elders , but for that forget any Punishment , there is no Provision for a Small warning for them . So those Dishonest Daughter –in –Law , doing the Legal Terrorism as Our government had given them the Whole sale Free License for that .”

Regards
Swarup Sarkar
(Names of victims have been changed at SFI’S request)

The article published in :-
http://www.moviemaza.com/article438651.html
http://presstrust.com/article438651.html

1 Comments:

At 5:33 PM, Anonymous Tharun Ranasinghe! said...

Indian Men Dying fastly, Reason follows:

I am trying to convey in simple, what really happenning in India.
I was a fun guy till 25, being university topper, but from a lower middle class family.
My Dad being simple, illeterate but honest individual by nature. Mother simple housewife, happy going family.

Later, I married a girl from a lowered middle class family, a degree student, I thought would help me with my work
and I thought continuing fun life with one more member as a part & parcel of this family.

To my strange experience, now I started learning what is India?

As long as everything went right before marriage, I was just next to Mr. Peter or Ms. Neha, having thoughts in the same
pattern of their life. Fun, Joke, and happiness now started seem to be only for a few families. My wife unwilling to
stay with my family and always tried in arrogancy to meet her parents demands. I surprised, why this women is like this.

To my surprise I ended up in JAIL with my mother, father and one of my sister, reason being not meeting her parents demands
of staying near by their home. IPC sec 498a is NON-BAILABLE WARRANT AND NO BAIL FOR THE FAMILY, REGARDLESS OF PYHSICAL VIOLENCE
EXISTS OR NOT. MY GOD, WHAT HAPPEN TO MY COUNTRY.?
After being in Jail for few days, I started my own research in the newspapers, organizations, MEN cells and most of
the neighboour hood higher-middle class families.

To my further surprise, I came to know the reality in India, MEN ARE REAL FOOLISH. MOST % OF MEN IN INDIA ARE
SILENTLY SUFFERING, SOME OF THEM WITHOUT BEING KNOWN TO THEM AS SUFFERING. IT IS ONLY BY THEIR PYSICAL CONDITIONS(DIESEASED)
, BY ANALYSIS. MOST MEN IN MY NEIGHBOUR HOOD KNOWS ABOUT THIS SECTION 498A AND WOMEN GROUPS. For IPC 498a, it is sufficient
enough to JAIL husband indefinitely, If wife informs police of mental harrassment.

They told us, this is the way society lives in India. I heard from others that, as my family came up financially, socially
suddenly through my generation, I wouldn't know it.

For the last 3.5 years, my family and myself being around courts. I am tired meeting politicians, paying lawyers and
police.

I lost my education. I lost my wisdom.

Now I am not able to think or understand what is the real pattern of a human society. What my country has given me
knowledge and means to live with.

JUST TO ACKNOWLEDGE THE COURT ABOUT MY FAMILY INNOCENCY, IT WOULD COST SEVERAL YEARS OF MY WHOLE FAMILY TIME, INCLUDING ME.
GREAT COUNTRY!

These are all other realities:

ANY SINCERE AND HONEST SHOUTS IN AN EDUCATED VOICE AGAINST EVIL, ONE CAN GET KILLED OR BEATEN IN A VERY FEW HOURS IN INDIA,
BY HOOLIGANS OF A SMALL POLITICIAN ITSELF. THEN THINK OF WHAT A POWER A PARLIAMENTARIAN HAS GOT.

BRAIN AND WISDOM IS THE CAUSE OF SUFFERING IN INDIA.

DEVELOPMENT OF MIND AND SOCIAL POWER OF THINKING IS LOWER.

YOUNGSTERS ARE INTELLIGENT IN MY COUNTRY ON THEIR SUBJECTS BUT NOT ON THE SOCIAL ENGINEERING LIFE.

 

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