Saturday, November 03, 2007

“Family against Women or 21st century Women against family?”

“Family against Women or 21st century Women against family?”

“A year after the law to protect women from domestic violence was enacted, it continues to be defeated by social prejudice and blind spots.”

That is the comment none other than the great 21st century women of our country.

In her Indian express article and king maker of making all the biased, anti-family law in this country, where the assumption that all the women born in Raja Harish Chandra family (Never lie) and all the men born in Criminal Family only.

SC snubs Centre for domestic abuse Act DNA News.

A small effort by Supreme Court of India Right to residence, maintenance only from husband: Court By Times of India.

Last few Months all Indian Media (NDTV/CNN-IBN/IBN7/ZEE/India TV) started to justify that “Divorce is not a dirty word today”, as in Delhi itself more than 9000 Divorce cases filed and more than 55% filed by Women only.

Seems it was a dirty word till the time Men filed more Divorce cases, long back, but as now a days it is the women who are filling the Divorce cases more than man, so it should not be treated as “Dirty Word”.

But, they never disclose that, in each and every Divorce cases, it is the Husband who had been treated as a “Free ATM Machine” in front of Judge/Police/Media and more than 98% cases it is the wife’s family demanded or taken huge money from the husbands family, let the marriage lasted for 15 days or 15 years.

Wherever the husband refused to be treated as free ATM machine, by our great LAW like DV act and 498A, they termed as Criminal and open Legal terrorism start. In some cases the wife stay in USA/Dubai and send their Domestic Violence Complain through mail/post, whose Husbands are living in India and our Judges happily taken the same as acceptance, as any one can file the domestic violence against husband’s family on behalf of a women, and immediately pass the interim order, that he should not go to media to say the truth, ask to deposited the Passport, interim maintenance in the range of 10K, 15k let her stay at USA or Dubai, it does not matter.

The harassment does not end here, he have fight now three maintenance case for the same purpose along with DV act, section24, section125 (some time in three different state) and our Judges happily pass the judgments as per their view, without considering that it is the wastage of valuable time of Judiciary, for a same purpose three different case filed, where as millions of cases are awaiting for getting justice.

Number of cases when the husbands got the child visiting right or child custody, immediately the Domestic Violence act came as gift and the creation of “father less child ” society awarded and our media friends openly announced, a child reunited with mother, but forget to mention that a child became “father less”.

It is the another truth that her associates and our so called WCD minister openly says after passing the biased Domestic Violence Act:

· It’s turn to suffer the Indian men, as women suffered for long. (Like as Muslim Kings had destroyed a lot of temple, so let demolish the entire Mosque in India).

· Don’t trust Your Men, trust Condom, and in the name of reduce the AIDS. (Forget that the AIDS increased by multiple partner sex and condom used for multiple pattern sex, not for single pattern sex, which we term as married couple)

· It’s Diwaly Gift to Indian women. (With in two weeks, four women send behind the bar under first DV act case in Pune and one age old women left her own house as her daughter-in-law walk in her house with her all friends and parents)

View Point: Domestic Violence Act lacks perspective By Zamir Uddin , Central Chronicle News.

“In short, the DVA-2005 in its enthusiastic thoughtlessness has throttled all avenues of reconciliation, has weakened the foundations of the institution of marriage, and vitiated conjugal life by developing a false sense of ego and a fictional helplessness among women. When it comes to man-woman relationship let us listen to the traditional but sane voice of John Milton, the English poet and moralist. Milton says that man represents reason and woman passion. As long as reason dominates passion, there is cosmos, but the moment passion dominates reason, chaos ensues. Let us view marital life from this viewpoint for marriage is not a bed of roses but a domestic battlefield. Unless husband and wife bring immense goodwill and sacrifice to bear upon their marital fortunes, their situation is desperate. The DVA need to be replaced by some more benign, sensible, gender-neutral legislation that may ensure women their rightful, honorable place at home and abroad, at the same time not forgetting the rights of men.”

On the other hand our LAW maker forget to recognized Spouse abuse: It's the husband's turn now: DNA News,September 20, 2007 .

“The study, conducted by two non-governmental organizations (NGOs) - Save Indian Family Foundation and My Nation - looked at four aspects of domestic violence — economical, emotional, physical and sexual. In a sample survey of 1,650 urban men, almost 98% of the respondents said they had suffered violence under one or the other of these heads more than once. Economical abuse was found to be the most common complaint with 32.8% saying they had faced it at least once in their married life, followed by emotional (22.2%), physical (25.2%) and sexual violence (19.8%). Nagging, grumbling, taunting, name calling, refusing food, denying sexual intercourse, abusing parents and family members, snatching salary, throwing objects, scratching with nails and biting, threats of suicide and even eviction from the house were some of the common forms of abuse mentioned. But perhaps the most serious was framing of false charges under the Indian Penal Code. ”

As a result while a large section of women, especially activists, are happy that the act has stood the test of time for a year, there are an equal number of people who feel that this act should be abolished. Rediff News: Delhi: Protest against Domestic Violence Act

So after complete of First one year the question raised to the Lawmakers and they have to decide honestly, instead of in assumption that Domestic violence is only a gender issue and men do not face any domestic violence, where as crime Bure report says, more than 52K married men end their life after marriage vs. 28k married women end their life after marriage in 2005: “Family against Women or 21st century Women against family?”

We have to wait and see to find the answer and for that your:

INVITATION- International Men’s Day : 19th November

Even an Animal has a Ministry and Welfare Division. Why not Men?

An appeal to Indian Government to Form Ministry of Men’s Well Fare.

As per Crime Bureau of India more then 72000 men commit suicide every year.


TIMING : 10 to 2 PM, 19th November 2007


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Disclimer :This is totally writer personnel Views only. You may have different opinion. The name and place changed to protect the Persons Identity.

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