Saturday, November 29, 2008

Indian Men are you ready to avoid a Terrorist Attack?

Indian Men are you ready to avoid a Terrorist Attack?
"Remember that what you believe will depend very much on what you are" Says Noah Porter.

As a Volunteer and Moderator of SIF ( Save Indian Family ) , every day I used to habituated to hear the Same Cry , Pain , Frustration of thousands Age Old parents , Pregent Sister , handicapped Husbands , when this Terrorism ( Legal and Human) in India will Stop??

Recently though the Supreme Court of India Cautioned to take the necessary precaution and seal the hope hole in 498A and anti-dowry LAW to stop such Legal terrorism , our LAW maker does not brother to respect the same , where as they are ready with another tools in the Name of Domestic Violence Act instead of a Domestic harmony Act , where a Husband and there all family members will be thrown out of House in the name of so called Verbal abuse , mental harassment , economical abuse and adulterate relationship ( no need any evidence , only her or her family members own statement is sufficient ) , where as for the same offence from the wife and their family members side , forget any punishment , there is no provision of a small warning for them , they have given them a whole sale free license for Verbal abuse , mental harassment , economical abuse and adulterate relationship .

Now the question is we ready to avoid a Terrorist attack in the form Legal or Human Terrorism?

Last one 3-year my experience is a Big "No".

SIF/SFF having the largest Network of NGOs and more than 100 Help lines all over the India, decided to utilize their all resources to expose the Terrorist let it be human or legal.

1.The SFF group comprises the most educated, qualified and talented (intelligentsia) people in different fields like Management Gurus, IT, Telecom, Banking, Service Industry, Bureaucrats, Media Personalities, Automobile and FMCG including NRI population and these are the people who have decided to come on the ground and fight for the justice.
2.The present size of the group stands at 1,00,000 active members across the globe (active = in constant touch).
3.We have grown from 3 persons in 2005 to currently 1,00,000 members due to dedicated, consistent, committed and hardworking volunteers. The community is growing even faster.
4.The group operates more than 100 active blogs (with regular updates), 16 websites, 26 NGOs and has a strong Internet campaigning group.
5.The group is connected through a centralized SMS and mail system – to mobilize the group within minutes across the country and globe.
6.It is a diversified group with regional sentiments/leaders and yet with a common objective to promote Gender Equal Laws and Policies.

I also appeal to all other NGOs instead of depending on Government or Politicians, take a small step to identify the Terrorist in your society, who may be your next door friend or in the same office, just keep a watch and help the ATS to expose them.

Recently when I meat a Commando who had on field experience 6 years in Punjab and presently last 5 years posted in Kashmir to fight against Terrorism, who share his experience with me, Which leads me to say all the nation how you can take a preventive action to avoid a terrorist attack, instead of crying after the terrorist completed their Job and killing a lot of Innocent People. It is up to you to decided, want to take preventive action or Cry after a terrorist attack.

1.Make Public Awareness for the Terrorist Activity, there is no logic, there is no aim, only aim to earn the money in dishonest way and create fear among the public by those radical Terrorist organizations.

2.Whenever you find Some Strange Attitude by some one, immediately inform to Police or necessary authority.
3.Save guard your valuable Items and family members in some Safe places to reduce the damage in a Terrorist attack.
4.When a Terrorist really attack , do not afraid , face them bravely and say ok You may seceded to kill me , but I will not allow to Kill you further Innocent by you or your associates.
5.Same thing when finally the 498A or DV Act or a Human Terrorist attack you, say the same and make a action Plan and prepare your self for a Long battle . Never allow them to take any undue advantages as a cake way.

Now you will be in two situations, the terrorist may say good bye to you and leave your Place or will Say sorry, I have changed and want to live with you as an Honest Citizen.

Ball is in your Court, if the terrorist say Good Bye, say them Good Bye as per your terms and condition

Or

To make them a Honest Citizen , ask them to accept the crime in front of Judge and make all the legal Documents and unconditional commitment that they will not do such type of Terrorism in future irrespective of any situation .

When you see your Next home is burning and you prefer to sleep, be ready it is next your home will be under fire.

Wake up all SIF/SFF members and help to Stop this Terrorist activity of India and expose them in Public, irrespective of any Caste, religion or Sex.

Terrorist do not have any Caste/religion or sex, they are Terrorist and they do not deserve to live in a Civilized Society.

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Thursday, November 20, 2008

Mr. Shanmugam Manjunath and International Mens Day!

Mr. Shanmugam Manjunath and International Mens Day!
It was International Mens day of 2005 when Mr. Shanmugam Manjunath sacrificed his life for this country.

Let us know who Manjunath was?

Manjunath was just like you and me. He was son, brother and a professional like you and me. Manjunath was a popular student, noted for his passion for music, sincerity and integrity.

He completed his engineering from JSS Engineering College, Mysore, and an MBA from IIM, Lucknow (2003 batch alumnus). As a manager with the Indian Oil Corporation, he ordered the shutdown of an IOC petrol pump in Lakhimpur Kheri (UP)—where he was posted—for allegedly selling adulterated fuel. Over the past three months, Manjunath had shut down two IOC dealer petrol pumps in Lakhimpur for selling adulterated fuel.

November 19, 2005 – the fateful night…

On November 19, 2005, evening, Manjunath was beaten up and then riddled with at least six bullets. His body was found in the backseat of his own car. Manju was shot and killed in Lakhimpur Kheri in Uttar Pradesh, by a dealer of Indian Oil Corporation - the company he worked for. His only “fault” was that he did his duty: he would not accept bribes for turning a blind eye to the adulteration of fuel being carried out by the dealer.

Government Inaction forced his friends to take charge of situation!
Seeing the inaction of government, his true friends came forward and registered a trust by name of “The Manjunath Shanmugam Trust” was registered on Feb 23rd, 2006. It is an international IIM alumni initiative; and works to improve governance in Indian public life.

His friends worked relentlessly to ensure quick justice in the case and the trial was completed in a record nine months. All eight accused were found guilty. The main accused - the petrol pump owner - was given the death penalty. The others were given life imprisonment.

His friends who formed “The Manjunath Shanmugam Trust” got in touch with noted a NGO Parivartan (www.parivartan.com), whose founder and IIT-Kharagpur alumnus Mr. Arvind Kejriwal won the 2006 Magsasay award (emerging leader category) to launch first National RTI Helpline number. This first national RTI helpline number was launched on November 19, 2006 (International Mens Day), the first death anniversary of Manju. Unfortunately, after good work for 1 year; the first helpline number is closed due to poor response.

His friends @ “The Manjunath Shanmugam Trust” have instituted the Manjunath Shanmugam Integrity Award to honor and encourage person/s or institutions like Manju; who are working to uphold the values of truth and honesty in Indian corporate, government or public life. The award carries a citation and a cash prize of Rs. One Lakh. The first award was presented to Prof. R.P Singh, (then) Vice Chancellor of Lucknow University, for his sterling work in cleaning up the University. It was presented on 24th March 2007, by N.R Narayana Murthy, Chief Mentor, Infosys Ltd.

What Government of India did for Manjunath and people like him!

Literary government of India has done nothing for Manjunath and people like him. It would have not been possible to give justice to Manju if his friends not taken charge of situation at that time. We have seen hue and cry of Indian government and machinery on recent rape allegations (nobody knows whether these allegations are true or false) at Goa but doing nothing for men who die for this country.

We are sure no one has forgotten Mr. Satyendra Dubey (IIT-Kanpur), who was also killed like Manju for his fight against corruption. We are surprised to know that even today (more than 3 years passed) the accused are not arrested. We can understand how it will be possible to arrest real killers if whole police is busy in ensuring arrest of more than 1, 20, 000 women ( mother/sisters) in false and fabricated Dowry realted cases ( 498A/Dv Act) to break thier previous 5 year plan.

Indian Government is always busy in providing concession to radical Groups ( Male haters) backed bills/legislations and not recognizing the conditions in which men work in India. It is men who does all the dangerous work and put their life at risk for family and country. Indian Government simply wants men to pay taxes and keep mum. They want men not to express their feeling and ask for welfare.

Manju has got nothing for his fight against corruption. It would a true tribute for Manju and to the people like him if government of India recognizes “International Mens Day” and announce ministry for men welfare as a real tribute to Manju.

If not government of India then Save Family Foundation @ Delhi salute, give tribute and dedicate International Mens day to Manju, as it was November 19 only when you sacrificed your life for the country that have a ministry for animals but not for the men like you.

Save Family Foundation @ Delhi also understands that the Loss of this son (Manju) to his mother is not any less than a mother who loss her daughter.

We dedicate International Mens day to you, Manju!

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Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Men want their day, talk equality- Hindustan Times

Men want their day, talk equality- Hindustan Times

International Men's Day, though yet to get official recognition from the United Nations, is slowly getting more votaries in its favour in India.

Sports icon and Olympic gold medallist Abhinav Bindra feels it's a good idea, "not just to have another Day but if it is to deal with specific problems of men. Why not?"

Everybody has issues; men too have issues that are specific to them and we must be "sensitive to those", he added.

Celebrated on different days in different parts of the world, it was the then Russian President Mikhail Gorbachev who first called for an international day to celebrate men in 1999 at the UN in Vienna.

In India, NGOs like Save Indian Family Foundation that advocate the cause of men — on a range of issues like false dowry claims, domestic violence, sexual harassment and torture — want to build international consensus for November 19 to be International Men's Day.

Fashion designer Rohit Bal is all for it. "Men always get a raw deal, particularly in times of segregation and divorce. Custody of children go to women. I think, in any country, both sexes need to be treated equally." He added: "This is not a demographic problem but a human problem. We should definitely have an International Men's Day."

Fashion designer Jattinn Kochhar said: "The Indian government should establish an International Men's Day though the day and date could be decided. I will give it full support."

"On the one hand, we talk of women's empowerment which is very good. But then a small percentage of men get slaughtered as the government, police and law are with women," he added.

This year, the day coincides with International Philosophy Day. Head of the department of philosophy at Hindu College, Devasia M. Antony, said: "An interesting but (un)welcome coincidence, one may think so! A glance at philosophical writings show most philosophers were and are men. A case of clear gender bias indeed! One hopes the emergence of more women philosophers would radically alter the way philosophy is taught and practised."

UN Information Centre director Shalini Dewan said: "As far as the UN is concerned, men were not the discriminated gender."



For more reference serch in Googel:

International Men's Day – 19 November, 2008

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Thursday, November 06, 2008

Cops book wife for man's suicide: Times of India , Nagpur

Cops book wife for man's suicide: Times of India , Nagpur


Cops book wife for man's suicide: Times of India , Nagpur
When any married women sucide, immediately the police as well as media run after the husbands family ( term them criminlas, Danav, a lot of adjectives without any evidence) and put them behind the bar in dowry death case and denied the bail years togethers, let the sucide note there or not.
Where as when married Men (Husband) Sucide , inspite of the cleare evidence of Sucide note, Police need 5 days to register the case, why this double standard?
Is the Pain of a Mother or sisters are less when they loss thier son or brothers?

May be our Media Friends prefer to keep thier silence , our LAW makers Prefer to keep blind eye or our NCW head feel killing the Husbands as Social service in this country, but our commondos of Save family Foundations will fight for thier last blood to get Justice and Husbands Killers will not be allowed to get scot Free, this the oath for each and every SIF memebrs.
Crime Bure data 2005 : Married Men Sucide : 52k vs Married Women Sucide 28K.Still there is no LAW to Protect Men why?
2006 Crime Bure Data : Married Men Sucide:55452 vs. Married Women Sucide:29869.
Will Our LAW Maker change the LAW 304B( dowry death) to 304C( Sowry Death) and 498A ( harrasement to wife) to 498B ( Sowry harrasement by wife)

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Reference : Cops book wife for man's suicide: Times of India , Nagpur


NAGPUR: Five days after Vitthal Dodke, a resident of the Ayodhya Nagar, committed suicide, Sakkardara police have registered offences against six
persons, including his wife, for allegedly abetting the man to end his life. Police have already dispatched units to arrest the accused, but till Wednesday evening, none had been taken into custody.

Behind the scenes, one may say that it was due to the efforts put in by members of the Save Indian Family Foundation (SIFF), an organisation consisting mostly of men tortured by their wives, which did the trick. Otherwise, the police had not registered offence against anyone despite the fact that Dodke had mentioned in his suicide note that his wife had driven him to commit suicide.
Offences under section 306 of the IPC have been registered against six accused identified as Dodke's wife Saroj, her family members Ashok Kshirsagar, Prakash Kshirsagar, their father Natthuji Kshirsagar and his wife, as well as one Ramkrishna Pimpalkar. The offences were registered late on Wednesday evening.

However, despite this, members of the SIFF, led by Rajesh Wakharia, organised a demonstration outside the Sakkardara police station on Wednesday morning, to protest the inordinate delay by the cops to register offence against the accused. The situation was diffused after the policemen informed them that they had already sent squads to bring in the accused.

Dodke had committed suicide by hanging himself at his home. His body had been discovered at on October 31. During primary investigations, police recovered a suicide note in which Dodke had said that his wife was pressurising him to have his parental house transferred in her name, and had been threatening to lodge false complaints at the local police station and have him and his family arrested if he did not comply with her demands.

Incidentally, this is the third case in a year in the city of a woman being booked by the police for allegedly driving her husband to suicide. In a similar incident in Ajni a few months ago, a city corporator and her family had been booked by the police after being accused of abetting her husband to commit suicide.

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Stop Killing of Indian Husbands and Stop Treating Indian Husbands family as FREE ATM Machine.

Crime is a crime and the PUnishment should be irrespective of any sex, caste or Religion.


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